FEATURED DANCER

Spoogmai, KDS Featured Dancer
Children teach us to dream.

Yes, we, too, are able to dream. However, we dream in confinement. We have created a mental box with the label, "Dream Here." This box gets smaller each year. Suddenly, we're not as healthy as we used to be. We realize we may not be as smart as we thought we were. And year after year, it becomes more dangerous to dream big and risk everything.

But children teach us to dream. And one such child is Spoogmai.

Spoogmai (spooj-my) is the baby of her family at the age of six. She shares her life with six brothers and four sisters. Her father cannot find work in Afghanistan therefore her mother provides what little income they do have.  Quite contrary to what most people would think about a little girl growing up in Afghanistan, Spoogmai comes from a loving family that supports her interest in dance and her dreams for the future.

For Spoogmai, dance class is where she learns something that sets her apart from the rest of her family, where she finds new friends, and where her shyness sleeps for a while. She smiles when asked what her favorite Dance memory is. Her voice changes from a small whisper to a louder recount of a dance recital where she was engulfed by a yellow dress. "I was nervous," she confessed, leaning in closer. "Next time, I won't be nervous."

So what is so special about this little girl and her big brown eyes that occasionally flit away shyly? I'll tell you what inspires me to dream with her. It is her goal for the future that sets her apart from other little girls. Spoogmai wants to become a dentist. The implication this dreams holds is profound. Children, like Spoogmai, are now being taught that seeking a life other than what was given by birth and tradition is plausible. This generation is dreaming of things that were not deemed possible a few years ago in Afghanistan. Spoogmai’s generation is changing.

Spoogmai’s generation gives Afghanistan hope.

Written by Laila, KDS Team Member